If you're craving fun and different sex positions but aren't yet ready to pull the trigger on purchasing sex swing positions, consider car sex positions as your gateway to hotter sex.
“We all know that variety is the spice of life, and having sex in the car can free you from the monotony of your typical sexual experiences,” says sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, MA, a Lovers sex expert.
If you're stuck with the same missionary sex positions and want to be a better lover, communicating with your partner about ways to engage in more erotic play is the first step. Sex in the car brings novelty and a strangely arousing air of nostalgia. When you discovered your sexuality as a teenager, your first experience was probably in the car. Sex in the car rekindles the sense of play and exploration.
Like every unique body, every car is different, so you need to experiment with the best car sex positions that will work for you, your partner, and your vehicle.
“If you have a great back seat or seats that flatten and give you plenty of cargo space, you can accomplish almost any position you do in bed: missionary, cowgirl, butterfly, doggy, 69 sex positions and more.” says Angie Rowntree, founder and director of Sssh.com. “We say, let the interior of your vehicle be your practical guide, then let your mutual desires and dreams wander.”
To be wise, you may not have it anywhere near your bedside table, but be sure to bring lube, nipple clamps, anal beads, prostate massagers, and/or cock rings along for the ride.
Benefits of Sex in the Car
Car sex not only adds variety to a sex routine, it can also turn something you fear into something you desire. “If you're looking forward to a long journey, pack lubricant – one of the best sex toys for men and sex toys for women – and start the journey,” says Rowntree. Another pro tip: Keep a sheet or towel in the trunk for lounging on.
Car sex has a taboo element that lends itself to spontaneity. “If you can spontaneously cross the highway to satisfy your craving for Dunkin' Donuts, who says you can't do the same to satisfy your desire for sex?” Rowntree adds.
Another benefit for busy couples is using car sex as a “sacred space,” Stewart says. Car sex positions are a fantastic escape from the chaos of daily life. This is especially helpful for couples who rarely spend time alone.
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Finally, sex in the car allows you and your partner to highlight your sexual talents and strengths. “Whether you have incredible flexibility or stamina, car sex positions help you see where you stand,” says Stewart, who admits: Navigating car sex well isn't easy, but when you practice a position that feels good, you'll gain more confidence. Hone your skills and get more creative with other car sex positions. Ultimately, “it will inspire you to fulfill positions beyond the car,” Stewart adds.
Disclaimer: Make sure you perform car sex in a remote location so you don't violate any trespassing laws on private or protected property (like near a school!) and because some positions can be a bit challenging due to lack of space (which is why car sex is so much fun). be sure to keep extra lube in the glove compartment to make pleasure easier.
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Best Car Sex Positions
1. Cowgirl
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Front Passenger Seat
If you have a two-door car and don't have much backseat, slide the passenger seat as far back as it will go to create space between you and the dashboard. The penetrating partner sits and adjusts the reclining angle for comfort, then the receiving partner sits on top of them and rests their knees on either side of the seat. The owner of the vulva may rotate in circles or thrust up and down on her partner's penis or strap-on.
Rear Row Middle Seat
A bench seat is best for cowgirls as it provides plenty of room on both sides for the rider's legs to spread out. The penetrating partner sits in the middle seat and the receiving partner sits on top, facing them. The driver can place his hands on his partner's shoulders or use the headrest/upper bench seat for support and stability.
SUV, Crossover or Hatchback Cargo Space
Recline the seats to create a flat area. The penetration partner lies on his back, then the vulva owner climbs on top (shown above).
2. Butterfly
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Recline the passenger seat as far back as it will go. The receiving partner sits, then leans over with his back to the bottom of the seat, his head resting against the back of the seat, and his butt hanging over the edge of the seat. The drilling partner will kneel on the floor between the dash and seat to push in and out, while they spread their legs and hold their knees for support. Height is important here: if the penetrating partner is on the taller side, he may not have enough room.
3. Dog
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SUV, Crossover or Hatchback Cargo Space
Open the tailgate of your SUV, crossover or hatchback. The receiving partner stands on all fours, facing the interior of the vehicle. The drilling partner stands outside the vehicle and enters from behind.
Rear Row Middle Seat
The receiving partner kneels in the middle seat of the rear row, facing the rear windshield. The giving partner kneels on the floor and enters from behind.
“The giving partner controls the thrusting while the receiving partner leans against the back of the couch for support,” says Kate Balestrieri, licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and founder of Modern Intimacy. “It provides deep penetration and a secure hold for the giving partner.”
4. Bifurcation in the Back Seat
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The penetrating partner sits in the back seat and the receiving partner sits on top of them, face to face. The owner of the vulva leans over her partner's penis or strap-on and controls the speed, depth and rhythm. “This position can be intimate and intimate and allows for deep penetration,” says Rachel Needle, licensed psychologist and co-director of the Institutes of Modern Sex Therapy.
5. Lean Entry from Rear
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“Make sure the backseat and floor are clean,” Needle prefaces, then have the receiving partner kneel on the floor and lean against the backseat with their hands or forearms against the seatback for support. The penetration partner kneels behind the receiving partner and penetrates vaginally or anally. Depending on the vehicle and body size, the penetrating partner may kneel in the backseat and the receiving partner may stand, then fold her body over the passenger seat, pushing her hips back so the genitals are aligned. “This position is easy to get into and provides a great angle for G-spot stimulation,” Needle adds.
6.Covered
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The receiving partner lies on their back on the bench or cargo area and brings their legs up to their ears, mimicking the happy baby pose in yoga. The penetrating partner lowers on top and slowly moves in for deep penetration.
7. Backseat Driver
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Use the captain's chair in the backseat and recline one all the way back. The giving partner sits back, while the receiving partner sits on either side with his back to them. “It's such a wild ride,” says Melissa Fogel, a licensed psychologist at Whole Health Psychological Center. “It provides good control of the tempo with more leg room and depth for both partners.”
8. Side Saddle
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The penetrating partner lies on his side opposite the bench seat, then the receiving partner assumes a spooning position with his back in front of the penetrating partner. “The receiving partner can keep one leg bent for better access, while the giving partner can control the angle of penetration,” says Balestrieri. “Getting into this position may feel awkward at first and may require some adjustment to find the right angle,” he says. But once you get into it, it's “ideal for slower, more sensual sessions with plenty of full-body contact.”
9. Reverse 69
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The older of the two partners sits in the passenger seat and reclines the angle to 45 degrees. The top partner assumes an inverted position, placing their head on the bottom lap (either putting their weight on their partner's knees or placing their hands on the floor) to align their mouths with the genitals. The top partner rests their hips on the shoulders below, their knees on the headrest and their feet on the ceiling.
10. Backseat Missionary
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Sex With Dr. For a beginner or a couple who doesn't want to spend time maneuvering around the constraints of a tight space, “it's a no-brainer,” says sexologist Jess O'Reilly, host of the Jess podcast. The drilling partner is positioned above the receiving partner along the rear cargo area. “You can change angles, change positions, rotate, and try variety,” says O'Reilly.
11. Spider
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The receiving partner lies on the back seat, knees bent and feet planted on the floor. The penetrating partner faces them and reaches their hands behind them for leverage and support as they weave their legs under the receptive partner's legs to align their genitals. The donor can thrust their hips or move in circular motions, while the vulva owner is free to massage their breasts or stimulate their clitoris.
12. Kneeling
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Both partners get on their knees in the backseat. The receiving partner straddles the intruder, pressing their bodies tightly together. This is a simple position that's perfect for larger vehicles because both partners can feel like they have more room to enjoy.
13. Solo Sex
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“When you want to get away from your partner, kids, or pets, grab your favorite sex toy, turn on your favorite music and/or pornography, and take time to have fun,” says Stewart. “Make sure you use common sense and common sense: Never attempt this in moving traffic or in public spaces,” Rowntree adds. Keep this behavior in your home garage or really deserted common areas.
Meet the Experts
- Sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, MA, Lovers sex expert
- Angie Rowntree, founder and director of Sssh.com
- Kate Balestrieri, licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist and founder of Modern Intimacy
- Rachel Needle, licensed psychologist and co-director of the Institutes of Modern Sex Therapy
- Melissa Fogel, licensed psychologist at Whole Health Psychological Center
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