Kobe Blaise is not the best husband despite his successful wedding to Emily Biberly in Cameroon

From Kobe Blaise 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? can be becomes a fan favorite, but he's not the perfect husband claims to be. While working in China, Kobe fell in love with his American wife, Emily Biberly. They spent several months together, which led to Emily becoming pregnant. Eventually, Emily returned to the United States to give birth to her first child. He applied for a K-1 visa to bring Kobe to the United States. Emily and Kobe are back together Fiancé of 90 days 9 seasons almost two years later.

Shortly after their marriage, Kobe and Emily had another daughter. They each demonstrated their conformity by taking on traditional gender roles. Kobe started working in the US to support his family, while Emily stayed home, took care of the children and managed the housework. Recently, the famous couple made a comeback 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 8. Kobe and Emily went to Cameroon, where they celebrated their second wedding. In March 2024, Kobe and Emily gave birth to their third childAtem. Now they have the lovely family of five they always wanted.

Kobe saw Emily as his Ticket to the USA

Kobe dumped his Cameroonian girlfriend for Emily

Kobe is married to Emily, but some of his past actions suggest that he is using his American wife to secure his future in the United States. When Kobe met Emily in China, he quickly became physical with her and ended things with his ex-boyfriend from Cameroonit will probably break your heart.

Kobe also got Emily pregnant before they got married, apparently to get him to move to Kansas. These calculated actions suggest that he may have seen his wife as a way to leave Cameroon and improve his own prospects.

Kobe believed that Emily had put on a few pounds

Most good husbands adore their wives throughout their pregnancy and postpartum journey. The latest example is David Toborowski, who went above and beyond to make his pregnant wife Annie Suwan feel like a princess.

Unfortunately, Kobe didn't show the same level of adoration for Emily as some of the good husbands in the franchise. She judged him and felt insecure about her postpartum body. When Kobe arrived in the US, he seemed less than enthusiastic about being intimate with Emily. He clearly commented on its sizeexpressed that “he gained weight.”

Kobe's inappropriate comments about Emily's weight revealed that he was more focused on her physical appearance than her personality.

Besides, he showed no interest in making love to her, he hinted at it its size may have turned it off. Despite having three children with Emily, Kobe's inappropriate statements in the past cannot be ignored. It's safe to assume that he still doesn't find her as attractive as he used to. It is possible that Kobe stays in the relationship only for the sake of his comfortable life in the United States.

Kobe pressured Emily to move to Cameroon

Kobe Wants To Raise His Children In Cameroon

Good husbands never force their wives to do something they don't want to do. However, Kobe proves to be a formidable partner by pushing Emily to move to Cameroon.

Kobe and Emily traveled to Cameroon to meet their relatives. But the trip somehow turned into planning their second wedding and discussing staying in Africa. Kobe tried to convince Emily to move to Cameroon permanently, saying that his country is cheaper than America. He He didn't care how impossible it would be for Emily to live happily in Africa and how it will affect her children.

Kobe disrespected Emily's parents by getting pregnant for the 3rd time

Despite Kobe not having his place, Emily got pregnant

For a long time, Kobe relied on the support of Emily's parents. He had been living in their home since he came to the United States and had not been alone for so long.

Despite receiving so much from his in-laws, Kobe had little regard for their feelings or their desire to live as an empty nester. Although she has a close relationship with her father-in-law and a good relationship with her mother-in-law, still disrespects the house rules by often ignoring them. The Fiancé of 90 days franchise cast member behaved like a true freeloader.

When Kobe and Emily had their first child, he depended on his in-laws to support his family and influenced them to take care of his son. After the birth of their second child, Emily's parents asked the couple not to have any more children in their home because of the financial strain it would cause them. Despite their pleas, Kobe fathered another baby with Emily during a trip to Cameroon, putting his own wishes ahead of his in-laws' feelings. Kobe doesn't respect Emily and doesn't care to embarrass her in front of their parents.

Kobe Pressures Emily To Name Her Child After Her Friend

Kobe Put His Friend's Feelings Above Emily's

Kobe's actions highlighted his selfish personality, the most recent example coming from him 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? season 8. When Kobe had his third child with Emily, he named her after his best friend. Despite knowing that his friend was disrespecting Emily, Kobe still chose to do so because of the promise he made to her years ago. Emily was never happy about Kobe naming her son after his toxic friend, but she couldn't do much to stop him. Kobe's unwillingness to put Emily's feelings over his friend's showed his lack of concern. for him.

Kobe only thought about his reputation and his promise to his friend. Even viewers criticized Kobe for his disrespectful behavior towards Emily.

As one Reddit user pointed out (via @Ambitious-Actuator32), “Seeing how Kobe doesn't empathize with his wife and his VERY valid feelings makes me look at him a little differently.” Another Reddit user wrote: “I felt so bad when Emily cried about it.” Another commented, “I'm not a fan of Emily's, but that was complete bull by Kobe.” The 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? alum is definitely a great friend but needs to do better as a husband.

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